With sorority recruitment coming up I thought it would be a good idea to contact some of my friends for advice on going through it! Recruitment can be intimidating and stressful, but in the end it is incredibly rewarding. You’ll find your best friends and maybe even your future bridesmaids. It’s important to know that there is always a home for you, and if you trust the process you will find it! These are do’s and don’ts from some of the best girls I know at 8 different universities in 8 different sorority chapters!

Do’s

Mizzou Gamma Phi Beta

• “Don’t be afraid to go deeper in your conversations with the active members. It’s okay to be vulnerable and open yourself up to others. This will help you truly see if that house is right for you.” – Ali Phelps
• “Be yourself when going into every house and when talking to girls ask what you want to know about the house to see if it’s the right fit for you. If you’re questioning anything make sure to talk to your Panhellenic Counselor, they’re there to help you during this time.” -Maddy Ljunggren

Kentucky Tri Delta

• “Wear comfortable shoes!! No one wants to be stuck running from house to house all day in shoes that are hurting their feet!” – Teagan Noesen

Michigan Zeta Tau Alpha

• “Look for girls who have similar interests and hobbies as you! One of the reasons I chose my sorority was because a sister I talked to loved the same true crime shows/podcasts liked.” -Sofia Terenzio

Iowa Pi Beta Phi

• “Have genuine conversations with the girls in each house and have fun during recruitment! The process is so exciting and rewarding in the end!” -Brenna Mays

Mizzou Chi Omega

• “Stick to your values. Don’ let the glitz and glam of recruitment blind your from seeing the purpose of the sisterhood! If you find girls who you literally want to be in a few years, from social to academics, chances are you’re in the right place!” -Laurel McCandless

Iowa Alpha Phi

• “Keep the conversation going, ask questions and be engaged. It will make the conversation interesting for both you and the member of that sorority.” -Jane Merczel

Iowa State Kappa Delta

• “Be open to meeting new people and stepping out of your comfort zone!” -Julia Evans

Auburn Gamma Phi Beta

• “Pack a mini deodorant in your bag, it’ll keep you smelling good and protect you from stress sweat!” -Aubrey Celmer

Indiana Phi Mu

• “Wear clothes that make you feel confident! Look good, feel good!” -Lauren MacLennan

Bradley Chi Omega

• “Ask questions! Don’t rely on the girls to ask all the questions. They’ll love that you can take initiative and are curious about their house!” – Tracy Bachman

Don’t’s

Mizzou Gamma Phi Beta

• “Don’t try to glamorize yourself to the girls. Be true to yourself and they will be able to see your potential.” -Ali Phelps
• “Don’t make yourself seem like someone you’re not. Don’t listen to other’s opinions on houses, if you like the house then it’s for you!” -Brittany Grim

Kentucky Tri Delta

• “Don’t compare yourself to other girls, whether it be your outfit, makeup or which houses your friends are getting back! Everyone’s experiences are different, if you trust your gut you’ll end up where you’re meant to be! & don’t forget to grab Starbucks for energy, even a couple times a day won’t hurt!” -Teagan Noesen

Michigan Zeta Tau Alpha

• “Don’t be worried if you end up with your second choice. Don’t waste away the first few amazing weeks as a new member wondering what it’d be like if you got your first choice. Remember that they CHOSE you and ultimately you will realize how perfect of a fit you truly are.” -Sofia Terenzio

Iowa Pi Beta Phi

• “Don’t try to be someone you’re not. Be yourself because if you don’t then you wont be in the house that is right for you! You want to surround yourself with people who share your interests, goals, and overall make you a better person! Best of luck!!!” -Brenna Mays

Mizzou Chi Omega

• “Try not to let the opinions of others change how you feel about houses you may love. Everyone’s recruitment experience is different and we all see chapters in a different light. Follow your gut (and utilize your Panhellenic Counselor) and you’ll find your home!” -Laurel McCandless

Iowa Alpha Phi

• “Don’t be closed minded while going through recruitment. Be open to all of your options. Be yourself, and you will end up in the most perfect fitting house for you!” -Jane Merczel

Iowa State Kappa Delta

• “Don’t be afraid to be yourself when going through recruitment, everyone has been in your shoes.” -Julia Evans

Auburn Gamma Phi Beta

• “Don’t wear uncomfortable shoes! As cute as they may be, it will be a long process going through rush as is and blisters won’t help!” -Aubrey Celmer

Indiana Phi Mu

• “Don’t go into recruitment with preconceived thoughts about any chapter. It’s not fair for you or the girls already in that chapter, keep an open mind!” -Lauren MacLennan

Bradley Chi Omega

• “Don’t talk about the three B’s: Boys, Booze and Bars. You can talk about that once you’re in house but during recruitment it makes you seem like that’s why you’re joining, and that’s a huge turn off to the recruiter!” -Tracy Bachman